Warning Signs of Abuse vs. Normal Sexual Behavior
Author Jayneen Sanders lists which behaviors are potential warning signs that a child may be being sexually abused… and just as importantly, which ones aren’t. Normal sexual behavior Children have a...
View ArticleHow to Get Everything You Want from Casual Sex (without Hurting People)
Robin Juliet explains how to have a healthy and honest NSA relationship without guilt or heartbreak —- “That’s exactly what I want.” Emails like this from complete strangers pour in like a torrent...
View ArticleIt’s Healthy for Men to Question Our Sexuality
The four months I spent questioning my sexuality in the military when I was 22 have made my life vastly richer. ––– When I was 22 and in the US Air Force, I spent four months wondering if I was gay. I...
View ArticleHow Slut-Shaming Hurts Men
Jordan Gray says that slut-shaming is too ingrained in society to go away overnight, but you can do your part to not feed into it. —– Have you heard of slut-shaming? It’s a recent hot-topic, and with...
View ArticleHow To Figure Out What Your Ideal Sex Life Looks Like
Jordan Gray says that when we go poking around in our subconscious mind we often find that there are dormant sexual desires that have been ignored for far too long. —– If you’ve been reading my...
View ArticleThe 3 Biggest Things I Learned From My First Sex Party
Jordan Gray says that it took being in a room with over a hundred naked people to teach him these three valuable lessons. —– Have you ever had the experience of walking into a room and seeing dozens...
View ArticleThe Doorway to Love Is a Broken Heart
I dare you to let the hammer of love smash open your heart. ___ Love is the child of an endless war Love is an open wound still raw Love is a shameless banner unfurled Love’s an explosion, Love is...
View ArticleHow To Cultivate Your Darker Sexual Energy
Jordan Gray went on a journey to discover his fully expressed sexual self and became a better man in the process. —- Five years ago I went to my first ever sex party in a “dungeon” in San Francisco....
View ArticleBi The Way: Male Bisexuality & Swinging
Does bisexual male activity automatically mean a man is gay? — Future Cooper Note: This post was written when I was very unsure whether or not to come out as bisexual on Life on the Swingset. It was a...
View ArticleIs Sex What Intimacy’s All About?
Embed from Getty Images Do sex and intimacy always need to go hand in hand? — When I was a young man I thought sex and intimacy were linked inexorably together. Actually I thought sex was linked to...
View ArticleWhat 57 Young Adults Actually Did To Improve Their Sex Lives
Embed from Getty Images Today we’re going to try something new. We are simply going to share what has brought real change to people’s sex lives and let the data speak for itself. Some of the ideas...
View ArticleI Needed a Little More Info on Sexuality when I was Growing Up!
Embed from Getty Images — The music was loud. So loud that I could barely hear myself think. And boy was I drunk; very drunk. I was only 14; I shouldn’t really be drinking at this age but you weren’t...
View ArticleHow Do You Open Your Relationship to Sexual Possibility?
Embed from Getty Images — In my work coaching men surrounding their sexuality I often hear, “I wish my partner were open to trying X.” X can be just about anything, from dominance/submission to Tantra...
View ArticleIt Isn’t Just About the Sex [Podcast]
Sex Coach Kat Trimarco brings her frank talk and bold philosophy about connecting with your deeper self through sexual exploration. Her story of overcoming drug addiction and breaking through the...
View ArticleHow to Show Him Your Sexual Side
Have you ever had a guy see you as just his “buddy,” instead of the kind of woman he wants to date and make his girlfriend? It’s easy to think that it’s because there’s some huge part of your...
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